But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, temperance: against such there is no law. Galatians 5:22-23 KJV
The word temperance comes from a Greek word meaning strength. Paul describes temperance, or self-control, as a fruit of the Spirit, thereby declaring a difference between self-control and self-reliance.
Self-reliance is relying on our own strength. Self-reliance says, “I can handle this.”
Whereas, self-control says, “I can’t do this on my own. I need help, Lord.”
Self-control is a fruit of the Spirit produced inside the heart of the believer as she yields her heart to Him. Therefore, we cannot produce self-control.
I am the vine, ye are the branches: He that abideth in me, and I in him, the same bringeth forth much fruit: for without me ye can do nothing. John 15:5 KJV
The scion (grafted limb) can do nothing without the stock (the plant stem). The stock (Christ) is the root-bearing part of the tree. Without the roots, the tree cannot absorb the minerals needed for the branches to grow and bear fruit.
Knowing this truth, I understand two things:
• I can do nothing in my own strength.
• The areas in which I struggle are evidence of my refusal to yield.
It isn’t about self-reliance, but self-control. It is yielding to the Holy Spirit’s work in my life and putting into practice that which I know to be true. This includes my actions, reactions, emotions, and thoughts.
Peter said, “And beside this, giving all diligence, add to your faith virtue; and to virtue knowledge; And to knowledge temperance; and to temperance patience; and to patience godliness; And to godliness brotherly kindness; and to brotherly kindness charity. For if these things be in you, and abound, they make you that ye shall neither be barren nor unfruitful in the knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ.” 2 Peter 1:5-8 KJV
If I practice what I know, then I will be fruitful and grow in understanding!
Self-reliance is something I am familiar with. For years, I leaned on my own understanding and strength. But eventually, I learned there is a better way. Relying on the Lord’s strength gives me what I need for this journey!
What say you? Share your thoughts in the comments.
Such a good reminder to rely on God’s strength. When I’m weak, He is strong. Thanks, dear friend. ❤️
Thanks, Karen! ❤
The hardest thing I’ve ever learned … and I’m still learning it, is to “let God do it.” It’s a daily, focused on Him, discipline. This is an awesome post. I love it, and I’m sharing!
Thanks, Liz! “Focused on Him” is the key. Yes? Thanks for stopping, commenting, and sharing. ❤
Gail, thank you for sharing this post.
I think it’s so easy for us to lose sight of what we should do and be as Christians. This is a great reminder!
Blessings, dear friend!
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Thanks, Robbye. It is a reminder I need every week. Blessings to you too, sweet friend. I hope you are feeling better. Praying for you!
Thank you so much for the prayers!
Blessings~
I agree. The only way to rely on God instead of ourselves, is to be daily in His presence, lingering until His likeness is found in us (as the song says). The more I get to know Him, the more I rely on Him instead of myself. Thankful that He WANTS us to spend time with Him!
Me too, Becky! Thank you for that uplifting comment!
Thanks for this. I needed another good reminder to slow down the crazy and get strength from Him and his Word even when- no, especially when- life is so busy! 🙂
Oh, Anne! Thank you so much for letting me know how it blessed you. While writing this, I was thinking of times when I listen to the enemy’s taunts and how his words effect my mood. It is “especially” in those times I need His strength to overcome. Blessing, my friend ❤
And to you 🙂
Excellent in every way. Thank you. 💛💛
Thanks, Squiggly! I knew you’d understand. xoxo ❤
Beautiful truth. I love that scripture. How rewarding when we follow it!
I agree, Carole! Thank you for stopping by and commenting! ❤